T and I had the difficult conversation. Neither of us is happy. Neither of us can say for sure where it originates. Although now we both agree that sex is not the issue; just another symptom.
I want a divorce. She wants to work it out.
I do not see a way out of this, neither can she. She just doesn’t want to give up.
I am ready to move on. We can evolve into Exes that are friendly. We don’t have to be married.
2 hours of emotionally intense discussion, but no anger. No blame. Painful but productive. We are both sad about it. She needs time to digest.
I left at noon. Spending tonight with my family and will return tomorrow.