I had a frustrating cancellation earlier today and ended up backfilling at a salon, which is something I have never done.
I am sure escorts get last minute cancellations and no-shows all the time, so I am not going to whine about it. It sounds like she is under some pressure outside of work, so I am going to leave her alone on the subject.
Cancels like this have happened to me before and I am never thinking straight once it happens.
Sitting in a hotel room at 11 a.m. Summer and I had scheduled 2 hours to start at 10 a.m. No Show. Not like her at all. I booked this hotel last night specifically for this session. I didn’t even sleep here last night. Drove over from my house at 7 this morning and have been working here in the room.
My first thought = worry something happened. The hotel is close to her apartment, and it is a Friday morning in a good part of town, so probably not the case. 2nd thought = overslept. Much more likely. She overslept an appointment once before.
I really like these mid-morning appointments, but it is tough to find providers that are consistently available at this time.
I started calling and texting her at about 10 minutes after 10. Left 1 VM, sent 4 texts and called 3 or 4 more times without leaving another message (over a span of 45 minutes). Probably way too many calls and texts.
Finally at 10:55 I get a polite excuse in email. I stupidly respond “I’m still available for the next few hours can I call?” As soon as I hit send, I regretted it.
Lame. It could have been a verse from an Offspring track. I should have left it alone. She did not respond.
This is what I think of as the ‘frustration zone’. Bad decisions get made here.
Muy, muy malo. Fortunately I was lucky at the end of this one.
I’ve now got a pocket full of cash and 4 hours to kill.
Bad decision number one: hit BackPage
Bad Decision Number Two : “hey Ashley you available?” to a BP girl I have never met, but has a few good reviews on TER (okay more than 50 reviews).
Bad Decision Number three – discover the address is a lingerie modeling studio, but decide to go anyway.
Bad Decision Number four – even though this place is in a questionable neighborhood, park my car out back and go inside.
I walk in and the front door looks like a prohibition speakeasy. I knock. Expecting a dude to pull open the peek panel.
But it is Ashley who answers. She says “one minute” and lets me in. The place is a little dark, but not so bad on the inside.
I now get two lucky breaks…
Lucky Break number one: Ashley is exactly as pictured and just my type. 25yo blonde spinner with B cups.
Lucky Break number two: Ashley and I have a great session. We’re there quite a while.
I am on my back, looking up at Ashley, who is mounted cowgirl. She has one hand in the air, tits bouncing, yelling “Bounce it Daddy!” Taylor swift is playing too loudly in the background.
I hear Charlotte’s voice in the back of my brain: “Upgrade your life”. Advice She gave me on the last trip to Chicago
Okay C. Point Taken.
Afterwards, Ashley says she can tell I am a good guy and am welcome back any time. She introduces me to a couple other girls hanging out. All look good.
While I lucked out, and this salon is now tempting. This is not where I want to be hobbying going forward.
Great sex though. My knees are week as I drive away.
I need to revisit my ground rules for this hobby. My tastes and expectations are evolving as I gain more experience.
Change number one: Longer Sessions with more established women.
Change number two: if a regular is out of her zone, and you know it, do not ask for exceptions
Change number three: no more frustrated decision making (you got lucky on this one)
Added footnote, I got a longer explanation from Summer later in the evening. Family stuff. I understand that well from my own family issues. We are on for Wednesday. Looking forward to that.