I just want to laugh, be happy and have lots of great sex with someone I love. I don’t think that’s asking for too much is it? – Emmagc75
I borrowed this quote from a blogger out here on WP. She has a very good point (Please go check out her blog here).
This is my Nirvana. I have achieved this perfect state many times in my life in different relationships. Moments at a time. Moments where everything comes together. Sometimes for a few hours. Other times, for several years.
Trouble is, I want it with the same person for the rest of my life. I don’t need it every single day. I’ll take the bad days with the good, as long as once in a while, we can get back to Nirvana.
Is this realistic?
What I am not willing to accept is permanently giving up one of the four forevermore.
The compromise I am living today allows me all four in variations with different women. Not perfect, but it is currently working for me.
T, on the other hand is still living with three out of four. I seriously doubt she is exercising her half of the Pass.
Some people never reach this moment even once in their lives. Am I selfish?